- Anger= When I get hurt or offended; Righteous Anger= When God is hurt or offended.
- Galatians 6:1-2
- We can't be pretenders (like a doctor that doesn't tell you when something's wrong)-- we can't pretend that everything will just be "OK," because it won't.
- We have to love each other enough to confront each other when there's a problem.
- Too many times we're more worried about what the person will think or say when we confront them and we wimp out.
- Too many times we pray and hope that everything will be alright (and that's a good thing), but we never deal with or expose the sin (and that's a bad thing).
- We can't just look past sin and go on. Ignoring sin is not the way.
- There is a difference between judging and accountability.
- Matthew 7:1-2; Romans 14:1-6; Romans 14:10-13; Matthew 7:15-20.
- Judging is when it deals with my convictions, standards, etc. Accountability is when it deals with God's convictions, standards, etc. and His Word.
- Luke 15:21; Confession= When I see myself the way God sees me. Characteristics of someone who is going through confession: Broken heart; Ownership of sin; No excuses; Willing to deal with the consequences even though there is forgiveness; Repentance (an about face-- confession is nothing more than being sorry for getting caught without an about face).
- Forgiveness= You owe me no further apology or remedy; You may stop thinking about it and treat me as though it never happened and I will treat you the same way.
- Matthew 18:15
- Proverbs 19:11-- not being so petty or overly sensitive (where everything offends you).
- Are you a Peacemaker (someone who tries to get to the root of the problem so that real peace can come) or a Peacekeeper (someone who wants peace at all costs and mainly just covers up the symptoms of the problem)? A peacemaker is a mediator; has a close relationship with Christ; knows the enemy; knows the Word of God; is trustworthy and has credibility and integrity.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008 –
What's New
Thought Provokers
The Book of Taunt
Sharpen Your Sword
The Ticket to Heaven
Media Mash
Word With You
Eye Openers
Creation and Evolution